Therapy for coming

home to yourself.

You might feel stuck, small, or unsure of who you really are. You’re exhausted by anxiety, people-pleasing, or just surviving. Something’s missing, but you’re not sure what.

Over the last 20+ years, I’ve supported youth, queer and trans folk, and gender-based violence survivors using an integrative feminist, trauma-informed, emotion focused (EFT) approach.  Now, I bring that experience to my own communities, supporting queer, trans, and neurodivergent adults navigating trauma, identity, and the impact of feeling unseen or misunderstood. As a queer, neurodivergent trauma survivor, I get how hard it can be to prioritize your own healing. My goal is to create a space where you can show up as your whole self.

I believe you don’t need to stay stuck in survival mode. We’ll work together to make sense of what brought you here, understand the patterns that helped you survive, and work toward a life that feels more true to you. Using humour and embodied practices, we’ll work to shift patterns in your nervous system, reclaim your voice, and align your life with your values. Together, we’ll gently uncover the parts of you that got pushed aside, and start rebuilding a life that fits.

I practice from

an integrative

feminist

trauma-informed

& emotion focused

framework

Feminist therapy ties individual struggles to history and to larger systems and structures. It says “You are not fucked up. You are having a normal reaction to a fucked up situation.”

Trauma therapy pulls nervous system habits into the conversation. Whether it’s a specific event, an early childhood pattern of attachment rupture, developmental neglect or abuse, or a combination of these, trauma-informed approaches help us to unpack and shift the ways we have learned to survive, so that we can move out of trauma coping and show up the way we want to in the world and our relationships.

Emotion focused therapy (EFT) recognizes emotion as a primary way of interacting with the world. A humanistic, embodied approach, EFT assumes we are all doing our best, and gives tactics for feeling into our surface (called “secondary”) emotional reactions, so that we can recognize and explore the deeper (aka “primary”) emotions underneath. Working with the felt sensation of primary emotions can create powerful shifts in our understanding and behaviour.

Humans are powerfully adaptive creatures and our nervous systems have so many strategies to help us survive and cope with the oppressive systems and structures we exist in. I love how these three modalities combine to support deep change, while recognizing the fundamental power and skills of my clients.

Your Questions, Answered

In-person or online 

I’m ready when you are